Cocktail Napkins for Mimi ++++++++

28 Apr Cocktail Napkins for Mimi ++++++++

Mimi is my daughter not my grandmother.

For me, life was humming along until the coronavirus brought everything to a screeching halt. I had just finished my French Jacket from the Palm Beach workshop and was preparing to sew for a trip to Aruba this month.

Like so many of you I made masks for whoever needed them….. healthcare workers, family, friends, clergy and church staff. I sewed dozens upon dozens of masks breaking most of my machine needles and using all of my elastic.

My husband set up a home office and we began eating  e v e r y  meal together………… same dishes, same napkins, same centerpiece. No complaints………

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Revisiting my big box of primarily cotton scraps for mask-making resulted in a trip down memory lane that I didn’t want to end. Amy Butler fat quarters I bought just because they were pretty, remnants from children’s clothes, the Girl Scout quilt, home dec projects… After finishing the masks I left the box in my sewing room and waited for it to speak to me.

It spoke and I listened.

I’ve always been a big believer in working with what you have, but rarely am I forced to do it. I knew giving these scraps new life would indeed bring pleasure to myself and others.

Just as a pair of new earrings or shoes can inspire new outfits from your closet, a few new napkins did the trick for my table.

The fabric is from Amy Butler’s Mid-West Modern Collection (Amy, I miss you – please design fabric again!) I particularly loved experimenting with the decorative stitches on the Creative Icon with a Wing Needle.

Alfresco! 

Amy Butler’s Mid-West Modern and Linen from Mood Fabrics punctuated the old estate sale china … The linen was my first online order nearly 9 years ago, and I had no idea what I was doing. From the moment I opened the box, the fabric reminded me of a tablecloth. 😉

Summer napkins for Katie.

The fabric source is unknown, but after making one napkin cut on grain, I cut the remaining on the bias so the hem would be uniform throughout the design. The picture below drove me a little crazy.Last but not least, are the Mark & Graham inspired cocktail napkins for Mimi.

I was smitten by the photograph in the catalog of the ribbon bound napkins available in seersucker and linen. Although they look simple I had to develop a technique for successful assembly.

Note the Mark & Graham napkins are bound on all sides which turned out to be bulky and cumbersome with my linen. In my opinion the stacked monogram and 2-sided ribbon combo strike just the right balance of embellishment!  I downloaded the monogram from Etsy – HarringtonDesigns.

Following is the tutorial:

Grosgrain Ribbon Linen Cocktail Napkins

For Each Napkin:

  • One 7 ½” x 9 ½” piece of linen
  • Two 7” pieces of 5/8” grosgrain ribbon
  • Matching Thread to the Linen
  • Matching Thread to the Ribbon
  • Two 7” Strips Steam-a-Seam

Directions:

  1. Turn under 3/8” on each 9 ½ “ side of the linen. Press. Turn under again.
  2. Stitch close to the fold using an edge-stitching presser foot.
  3. Apply Steam-a-Seam to each grosgrain ribbon strip and press.
  4. Fold the width of the ribbon pieces in half and press again.
  5. Peel backing from Steam-a-Seam.
  6. Turn under ends of ribbon to match the width of the linen.
  7. Slip the ribbons over the raw edges of the linen. Press so they adhere to the napkin.
  8. Check to ensure the ribbon is placed evenly on the linen and press.
  9. Stitch using and edge-stitching presser foot.

To Embroider:

The design is up to you. Monograms are best placed 1 1/8” above the bottom edge of the napkin. I found a heavy tear away stabilizer worked best. The design should be small enough to allow the napkin to fold comfortably but large enough to pop.

 

Last year Pfaff sent me two metal Embroidery hoops that I really love – the creative™ Petite Metal Hoop and the creative™ Grand Metal Hoop. The fabric and stabilizer are secured with magnets, eliminating the need for hooping. These hoops are perfect for heavier fabrics or RTW pieces that can be awkward to secure inside the hoop.  Fabric placement is also easier.

There is no silver lining to the coronavirus, but with sewing as my vehicle, sheltering in place has allowed me to joyfully unite the past with the present.

Dear Readers, I hope you can stay safe, comfortable and healthy during the ongoing pandemic challenges. I think of you often.

Bottoms Up 😊

 

 

 

 

 

 

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51 Comments
  • Karen Helm
    Posted at 08:04h, 28 April Reply

    Lovely and creative, Sarah! So this is what you have been up to… Cheers!

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 08:06h, 28 April Reply

      This is it, Karen! I was at loose ends and unable to focus on sewing clothes, but this has been fun😊 Cheers to you!

  • Marilee Henneberger
    Posted at 08:20h, 28 April Reply

    I am well supplied with cocktail napkins, but your trip down memory lane while making masks and such struck a chord. I’ve been doing the same thing vis a vis mask making. I have bins of cotton fabric left over from 40 years of sewing. Going through it all has been triggering memories. I found scraps of original Lilly Pulitzer fabric that I’d used to make dresses for my then young daughter, back when one could buy the authentic yardage at the Key West handprint store. How I wish I’d bought more. But, when I sent my daughter two masks I’d made from my leftovers, she was thrilled and immediately posted photos on Facebook. I’ve since had to turn down requests from others for their own Lilly masks, though I’ve promised to sew masks, etc if anyone has an old Lilly garment that they’re willing to sacrifice. There’s no real silver lining to the Covid-19 pandemic, but we sewers can find small satisfactions while sheltering at home.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 08:40h, 28 April Reply

      Marilee,
      Thank you so much for your comment. I had just enough Lilly fabric left to make two masks – one for me and one for a friend who is a devoted Lily consumer.
      Please let me know if you ever discover another source for Lilly fabric. Your last sentence hit the nail on the head, and I’m grateful to have this skill.😊

  • Mimi Langford
    Posted at 08:29h, 28 April Reply

    Love my new cocktail napkins!!! 😘🍸

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 08:40h, 28 April Reply

      Anything for you, cute girl!

  • Janie Viers
    Posted at 08:36h, 28 April Reply

    I know that for me, sometimes is is comforting just to be able to sew and sew and sew without worrying about pieces and parts going together. I made aprons for the workers at a church bazaar and it was just heaven hearing the machine and zoning out.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 08:42h, 28 April Reply

      Janie – Well put. The napkins did not require the same thought process as sewing clothes, and I found it relaxing! Many thanks 😊

  • Angie Hepner
    Posted at 08:41h, 28 April Reply

    Beautiful work as always. Love the cocktail napkins! I am amazed at the embroidery hoop. No hooping the stabilizer or fabric? That is awesome.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 08:45h, 28 April Reply

      Hi Angie! I LOVE these hoops. That is correct. The monograms were simple designs, but for more complex designs, tacky tear away is placed underneath the hoop and the fabric is placed on top and secured by magnets.

  • Natalie Tangen
    Posted at 08:56h, 28 April Reply

    So lovely, so inspiring! Same here with time, masks, deep dive into current fabric resources. 🙂 Keep doing what you are doing, – I’ve learned so much from your blog and I’m so very grateful to you for teaching me.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 08:58h, 28 April Reply

      Thank you Natalie! Making masks for the coronavirus pandemic has certainly proven the value of saving scraps 😉

  • Laura Casey
    Posted at 09:08h, 28 April Reply

    You know, Sarah I’ve always admired your “no fear….onward” way, tackling anything and everything regarding sewing clothes…but I think it’s your resilience that I most admire…..many cannot focus on sewing..even though it’s such a refuge for many….so hear you go making all these beautiful home decor things…..love every one of these projects, but especially the warm striped tablecloth with the vintage china. Screams summertime.
    Looking forward to going on my London trip with my sister….next year, hopefully. Stay well.
    Laura

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 09:37h, 28 April Reply

      Laura…. You’re trip was canceled. I’m so sorry and hope you’re on for next year. I was at loose ends along with everyone else, but making table linens has been relaxing and fun. I love that pink, green and orange combo of the linen too. Little did I know how heavy the fabric was and how big the stripes were! I said there’s no silver lining during the pandemic and there isn’t, but this online order ‘mistake’ definitely enhanced my dining experience. So nice to hear from you 😉

  • Cheryll
    Posted at 09:09h, 28 April Reply

    Many of us have just the same, using up the stash! It would take me about 200 years to do that but I have made a little dent making masks. In my sewing group, along with our LQS, we have made over 10,000 masks and donated them to hospitals, police and fire departments, veterans homes and nursing homes. Quite a project!

    Your napkins are a great idea as well. I have quite a bit of quilt fabric that I bought because it was so pretty but no idea what I had planned! Napkins it is! Stay well and safe, looking forward to real life again.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 09:38h, 28 April Reply

      I’m sorry, Cheryll, but I cannot get beyond your first paragraph…. Did you say TEN THOUSAND MASKS?

    • Christine
      Posted at 01:04h, 01 May Reply

      10,000 masks – unbelievable! How inspirational! Congratulations on that accomplishment and helping to keep so many safe. 🙂

      • goodbyevalentino
        Posted at 07:10h, 02 May Reply

        Indeed! How many were in you’re group?

  • Gayle
    Posted at 09:19h, 28 April Reply

    Sarah, Thank you for this interesting post. I was wondering what had happened to you since I had not seen your post in awhile. Maybe I missed one? I am glad you and your family are well and thank you for helping others in this pandemic. All the best to you and yours.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 09:40h, 28 April Reply

      Hi Gayle! My last post was in early March featuring the French Jacket I made in Florida. Then coronavirus hit and I was unsettled for a while. Mask making brought me back to the sewing room thank goodness!

  • Eileen
    Posted at 09:52h, 28 April Reply

    Love the blue/white stripe napkins!
    Can we see your mssk?

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 10:10h, 28 April Reply

      Thank you, Eileen……… I have very few photos of masks but they were all the surgical masks or the shaped nose style. Most requests were for the surgical style masks, but I really prefer the shaped nose. All of the masks have pockets for a filter.
      Funny you should mention liking the blue and white napkins – I made more masks from that fabric than any other since it was gender neutral. 🙂

  • Anne Marie Mattison
    Posted at 10:22h, 28 April Reply

    Thank you for the loveliness and inspiration…much needed! And, know I know what napkins I’ll be making for my son and DIL! Good health and cheer to you and yours.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 10:43h, 28 April Reply

      My pleasure, Anne Marie! These make great gifts and are rarely the thing one buys for oneself 😉 Many thanks for the comment.

  • Kathleen Wille
    Posted at 10:27h, 28 April Reply

    So glad to hear from you. I’d been wondering how you all were faring with the social distancing. I am enjoying working through the tons of projects that I have at home and I started taking an on=line fitting class. I am loving working through fitting issues and getting tips on how to do this alone. I am stalled on my French jacket. It just isn’t appealing right now. I really enjoy your blog. I will try some linen cocktail napkins with some of the linen in my stash. Thanks for writing. Love you!

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 10:44h, 28 April Reply

      Love you too, lovely woman! Thank goodness for Zoom and FaceTime 😉 Whose online fitting class are you taking ?

      • Kathleen Wille
        Posted at 15:30h, 28 April Reply

        I am taking Fitting Essentials from Alexandra Morgan of In-House Patterns Studio. She is very knowledgeable.

  • Sheila
    Posted at 11:27h, 28 April Reply

    So happy to see your post…….a lot of my quilting scraps were donated to make masks. Quite a relief to see them appreciated and used. I never wanted to die with the most fabric! Love your table designs and napkins….yes, I hope Amy Butler begins to design fabric again at some time. Cheers from California.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 13:38h, 28 April Reply

      Thank you, Sheila and Cheers to you! ‼️

  • Joan
    Posted at 11:40h, 28 April Reply

    Thank you for the inspiring post and tutorial, Sarah. Inspiring because my table has been the same 3 meals a day for 6 weeks, except for Easter dinner, when I pulled out my ‘lemon and olives’ hard placemats! So I am in need of inspiration…
    Most of us haven’t experienced a crisis of this scope during our lifetime (I’m thinking of the last World War). When this is largely behind us, I hope we will not forget, and will work hard on strategies to best handle such a crisis in the future (and not let national politics divide us).
    Yesterday, I checked your blog, wondering if I had missed one of your posts in my email inbox… Glad to know that you and your family are well, despite Covid-19!

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 13:45h, 28 April Reply

      Many thanks, Joan for your thoughtful comment. Sounds like you were experiencing the same table situation as I was. It didn’t bother me but a fresh look is uplifting no matter how small 🙂
      I doubt WE will forget but I seriously believe life will never be the same. You take care!!

  • Christine Rudinsky
    Posted at 12:05h, 28 April Reply

    Thank you so much for a lovely post! Your colors are always as cheerful as your posts. Many of us are quite isolated from family and friends, and posts such as yours certainly brighten my day. I especially enjoyed this one, as we only use cloth napkins, as do my children. The wing needle is certainly going to be given a try!
    Happy day!

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 13:48h, 28 April Reply

      Ah…. so sweet Christine 🙂 Isolation from family is not easy and I’m grateful for Zoom and Face Time!
      I have really enjoyed the wing needle and look forward to using it on lighter weight fabric for a more pronounced effect.
      Many thanks for your comment.

  • Margaret Edger
    Posted at 15:37h, 28 April Reply

    Very attractive and creative hmmmmmm. Just like you! A. maggie

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 17:16h, 28 April Reply

      Thank you, Maggie, but I pale in comparison to your creativity and productivity! State safe ❤️

  • Connie M
    Posted at 22:25h, 28 April Reply

    They are all lovely and a great way to dress up the dinner table. We are having a picnic in the park this weekend. I might have to whip up some pretty linens to make it feel special. Thanks for the tutorial and inspiration.

    Btw you made me laugh out loud about the stripe pattern with the hem on grain! Was this a carryover from your french jacket experience?

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 06:01h, 29 April Reply

      😂😂 I’ll be forever traumatized by having to take the jacket apart, Connie! By all means, whip up linens for your picnic and enjoy your weekend! So nice to hear from you.

  • TinaD
    Posted at 08:24h, 29 April Reply

    I thought I liked the ribbon napkins best when you posted on Instagram, but now I’m kind of sold on the striped ones too. Is a home dec book in the offing next, maybe? 🙂 I’m lucky—I’ve had little time to sew because I work in a “critical” industry—but I like seeing the pick-me-ups folks who do have time put together.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 08:42h, 29 April Reply

      Tinad ~ Thank you for working in a critical industry during this time.
      So many people have said they thought I’d sew. a new wardrobe for myself during stay-at-home orders, but I’ve been unsettled. The masks gave me an opportunity to sew without complications and the table lines have been downright fun!
      I love the stripe napkins too. After I put my daughter’s monogram on them, I could no longer keep them for myself 😉
      Many thanks for your comment!

  • Caroline Mock
    Posted at 10:34h, 29 April Reply

    Love your linen cocktail napkins! I think they are even lovelier than M&G’s! Like many others I have been “petting” my beloved fabrics these last few weeks choosing some for masks. I hadn’t thought of making table linens but it’s a great idea and just what I need to energize my sewing. Thanks for the great post—I always enjoy reading your blog.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 12:59h, 29 April Reply

      Thank you, Caroline! I had no plans to make table linens, but I’m hooked 😉 Have fun!

  • Donna Trask
    Posted at 16:45h, 29 April Reply

    Sarah
    You are always an inspiration! Your post is like a ray of sunshine! Thanks so much for sharing

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 18:37h, 29 April Reply

      Many thanks for your comment, Donna! I had so much fun creating these napkins – I’m glad my enthusiasm was conveyed 😊

  • Lisa C in Dallas
    Posted at 17:14h, 29 April Reply

    I recently inherited a lot of fabric and a Bernina from my aunt. I, too, made napkins from some of the layer cake pieces she had left from a quilt. Mine don’t match anything in my kitchen but they look great with my white dishes and are a nice reminder of her.

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 18:40h, 29 April Reply

      Lisa,
      It doesn’t matter that they don’t match anything as I’m sure if they’re loved they’ll be used! Lucky you to inherit a Bernina 😉

  • PATRICIA H. Flournoy
    Posted at 13:18h, 01 May Reply

    so very pleased to see your post…Perhaps this will inspire me to do Something…I have been at 6’s & 7’s …with too much time and not creativity! Keep safe and happy!

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 07:00h, 02 May Reply

      Thank you, Patricia ~ sometimes inspiration hits when you least expect it. Hang in there and take care 😊

  • Elizabeth Wellons
    Posted at 13:54h, 01 May Reply

    You have been a busy sewer during this quarantine period. Love all of your table linens!
    Cissie

    • goodbyevalentino
      Posted at 07:02h, 02 May Reply

      Cissie ~ This has been enjoyable and stress free sewing! I ‘ve loved that piddling around has been worthwhile! I’d love to see what you’ve been sewing 😊😊😊

  • Saturday Greetings 104 - Cheryl Moreo
    Posted at 06:45h, 02 May Reply

    […] I found this blog post by Sarah Gunn that I thought all you sewers might like to read.  It is about how her family coping with the pandemic, and how she decided to perk up her family meals.  Enjoy Goodbye Valentino’s blog post, Cocktails for Mimi. […]

  • Cynthia Flagg
    Posted at 16:25h, 10 June Reply

    Thank you so much for the tutorial on Mimi’s napkins. I made a shameless copy of them and I just love them! I can’t wait until it’s safe to have friends over for cocktails so I can use them. In the meantime, DH and I will enjoy them.

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